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♥ Dear Me//One



At the moment it is fashionable to write letters to one’s younger self. It’s possibly a fleeting fad but I like the idea so I am having a go.

Dear Younger Self,

I write this letter more in the hope that it will remind me of some things I already know but sometimes forget, than in the expectation that anything I say will influence you, as I know you will have to beat your own path across life’s torturous tundra.

In this letter I am going to talk about striving to get things done but before I do that, I would like you to know that no one is better or indeed worse than you.  I am not suggesting that everyone is equally talented, equally intelligent or equally beautiful but that everyone is unique and therefore comparisons are not appropriate.

Now on to the striving, there is a Thomas Edison quote that I like that says ‘Genius is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration’.  I think if can safely be applied not just to genius but also to anything you wish to achieve in life however small or large.  Malcolm Gladwell’s book, Outliers – The Story of Success, is one you might like to read when you are older, it’s well written and informative and one of the chapters, the 10,000 hour rule is a much longer take on the Thomas Edison quote; apparently for greatness in any field practice (10,000 hours of it) is more important than innate talent.  I am not suggesting that you strive for great success (you can of course if you want to) just letting you know that even the smallest achievements in life require sustained effort.  One thing that may help when something seems impossible, too difficult, or simply not worth the effort is to say repeatedly to yourself never give up, never give up, never give up…

I wish I had known these things when I was your age.  I am not going to drone on and on so I will stop now but I will write to you again to talk about other things.

Love from
Your Older Self

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♥ Raspberry Road



I had a kaleidoscope of pleasing, peaceful, pastoral images floating around my mind as the car climbed the hilly, twisty road en route to the raspberry farm.  I had never been there before so I imagined, I would be wandering among the raspberry canes idly picking fruit while simultaneous gazing at the misty mountains and admiring the verdant fields in the middle distance.

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♥ Shopping my Closet



I have never fully understood the manic merry-go-round on which, what was ultra fashionable a mere six months ago becomes sooo last season and what was fashionable  many decades ago becomes the dernier cri in desirable this season.  I confess that I have a fondness for the policy espoused by one of my favourite shops Agnes B, of having a small permanent collection of popular timeless pieces, which acts as a backdrop to the myriad of different garments in each new collection.

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♥ Nursery Rhyme and Personality



Monday’s child is fair of face,
Tuesday’s child is full of grace,
Wednesday’s child is full of woe,
Thursday’s child has far to go,
Friday’s child is loving and giving,
Saturday’s child must work for a living,
But the child that’s born on the Sabbath day,
Is fair and wise and good and gay.

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♥ Testing, Testing…



I write like a very famous literary figure. Fear not readers I have not severed all connection with my sanity but I did  put one my blog posts through the I Write analyzer (which I found via Metropolitan Mum’s blog) and it declared I write like Edgar Allen Poe!  You can try out the I Write analyzer if you click here.  It’s a bit of fun – as your writing is ‘analyzed” in just a few seconds it’s obviously not to be taken madly seriously.

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♥ My Week That Was



Paper Protest:  Are you, like me, flabbergasted, fascinated and gaga with disbelief, as you watch the unfolding narrative of the dark games News International played, with other people’s lives and journalistic standards?  I normally buy the Sunday Times, but this and last Sunday, as a protest against the sordid shenanigans, I haven’t done so, I don’t expect my puny protest will make jot a of difference, but at the moment it just seems so wrong to buy a paper from the News International stable.  The chattering classes are suggesting a film of the sorry story will be made some time in the future.  As Rupert Murdoch struggles to save his embattled empire and other media outlets shine a spotlight,on the players who strut across News International’s and its parent company News Corporation’s stage,  perhaps ‘Karma Strikes Back’ might be as good title as any for said film.

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♥ Fashion and Poetry



Aeons ago, when I was in my last school year, studying for my Leaving Certificate (final school exam in the Irish educational system), I first came across Emily Dickinson’s poems, as a couple of them were on the English syllabus.  Back then I would have struggled to explain the potent tug of her words and why they left a mark on my soul; in fact I doubt if I could explain it fully today.

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♥ Straw Basket



It’s been sunny (well what passes for sunny in the  changeable  Irish climate) here today but it was more in hope that the fine weather might continue, than expectation that it would, that I changed over from the tote I had been using to my most summer-sun suitable bag.  It’s actually a straw basket bought in Tuscany a few years ago, I have a vague memory that it cost around twelve euros, there were three sizes to choose from and I opted for middle one, in retrospect I wish I had also bought the teeny tiny cute one and the very useful (for shopping) large one.

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♥ Scarforial Art



Christine Legarde (previously the French finance minister and now the new head of the IMF) was ranked forty-third on the Forbes 2010 list of ‘The World’s most Powerful Women’.  Despite her high-powered international career, it was interesting to see that in a recent FT article (admittedly not specifically about her, or her new job) one of the first things that the journalist honed in on, when describing Christine Lagarde giving a speech, was that ‘she was wearing a scarf tied in a perfect geometric circle’.

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♥ Slices of my week



In last Sunday’s post, see here, I mentioned jewellery-making classes I went to many years ago.  I made quite a few things including the bracelet and flower necklace in the picture; because they were on my mind, I have worn the pieces a lot this week.  They are many degrees short of perfection but are still wearable.  Of all the courses I have attended, jewellery-making one that I found easiest to master; at the end of the first evening I came home with a very simple silver cross that I had made.  The process was straightforward, I sawed out the cross shape, I then filed the edges smooth and it was finished when the teacher soldered on a ring, to thread a chain through.  So if you are looking for a spare time creative outlet maybe jewellery making might be for you.

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